344: Stop the Toxic Sex Cycle: Blame and Forget
Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy
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I Don't Remember Your Need, and I Want to Care You
When we talk about sex, there's an explosion. So i want to stay safe. And my brain actually, like, almost erases the whole conflict because then that's even safer if i even think about this as an area of conflict. It's safer for me, i'm not going to have that explosion. But over on the other side, the impact on my partner is sending this message, i don't even remember your need. I don't care about your need," she says. "That would blow the sexual pursuer's mind"
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