Do You Judge Others Too Much?

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The key to keep in mind is that when you're feeling really insecure about yourself, the reason is probably because you're judging other people too much. Funny people tend to be less happy than not; there's a kind of a tortured spirit behind the naturally funny joke cracker. People who laugh a lot at jokes, i mean, they just appreciate jokes, they tend to be much happier. There 're some people, they have kind of a persona of being bummed a lot, and so they don't let themselves laugh. But if you basically give yourself permission,. And this is actually something you can do when you go to a new place, you can say, uo, im

Arthur Brooks is a bestselling author, social scientist, and the President of the American Enterprise Institute. He teaches Leadership and Happiness at the Harvard School of Business.

In this episode, Eric and Arthur discuss happiness as well as his book, Love Your Enemies: How Decent People Can Save America From the Culture of Contempt.

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Arthur Brooks and I Discuss What It Takes to Find Happiness and…

His book, Love Your Enemies: How Decent People Can Save America From the Culture of Contempt
The four extrinsic things that feed off fear are money, power, pleasure, and fame
The four intrinsic things that feed off love are faith, family, friendships, and meaningful work
How happiness requires meaning and having meaning requires challenge and/or difficulty
The three aspects of meaning are coherence, purpose, and significance
How writing out the thing you learned from a bad experience can bring meaning to it
Learning to find significance in the small things
How we need to stop living in the future and appreciate being in the present
The freeing idea that nobody really cares like we think they do
The more you judge others, the more you will feel judged
The therapy for feeling insecure is to stop judging and start observing
The link between humor and happiness
How we should reject grimness
Rejecting the expectations of the holidays can lead to more happiness

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