Love is not god thinking or measuring or counting. God is awareness. Like we don't, i can't say this enough. It's not just romantic good feelings. Look at the if you think about consciousness, like rupert spyre does, as a screen, a screen will show any movie, any movie. That's the yes. Ye. Meaning your worst moment, your best moment, the screen was always there to give sustenance and reality to all things. And then when pain does arrive, sapply that loving awareness to that pain, one by one,. You know, like the pain doesn't negate it at all. It's actually, it makes it bigger.