The Number One Thing You Can Do as You Recognize That You Are Harming Your Children

There could be a linkage between the places where you mess up as a mother or father and unaddressed parts of your story. The best predictor of how our children will become attached to us, that is, how emotionally healthy they are, is how well we as parents have come to make sense of our lives. That's dan sigelnow did you hear that? What he's saying is that if you want your children to be emotionally healthy, the best way to do that is to makesense of your own developmental story.