The Difference Between Wives Submit and Wives Obedient

There's only been one time in my entire relationship maybe two Were me and his wife were at such loggerheads that I said no, this is what it has to be. She handed him a list of things to do for the kids and he set it down number one Because she makes lists and that's beautiful and I don’t and I said I'm their father I know how to love them  She said that was the most healing moment of her maternity right? The other was when I said we're going to my parents house because this guy's gonna freaking kill me With the next-door neighbor, right? And she's like I don't want to go no, but