Is There a Way of Knowing?

When you really love someone, how you know them is such a participatory way of knowing. You give up the extensive erotic pursuit of many different partners in order that you can deeply know and be known by someone else. We are participating in the the becoming a person of others, and then they are participating in ours. It's this powerful new, whole new way of being. And it has become so sedimented in our culture and so ossified and so below how we live. But with a gope, the most excellent way we will come to know as we are knowingi he's talking about this participatory love.