I don't think getting sick is a sign of weakness, especially if it's a medication reaction. I'm not really hearing that you did anything out of line in fact what I would say is that It sounds like people invited you to be their guest and then generally speaking  it's the respect Like if I invite someone into my house and they get ill I think it's reasonable for me to try to take care of them Right because that's what you do for guests in your home You don't Does that make sense? The problem here is that there should be a mismatch. Because her parents are blaming you and you're feeling guilty. Yeah, that's not a mismatch. Do you