How Do We Stand Up and Sit Down and Wash the Feet of Others?

How do we balance having convictions and yet a call to love? We've got to do both at the same time, which is what jesus did. One of the things i talk about in the book was a particular experience where i had to learn to both stand and kneel at the Same Time. To pretend that you don't have any convictions or beliefs, or something like that's probably disingenuous for any of usto say that. But to pretend that what i believe and know is superior to what you do is arrogant. That is, as saint paul would say so learn christ so learn from it.