"I wasn't at all sure mike would cooperate if i laid my cards on the kitchen table," she writes. "He'd been violently opposed to other whigte lost methods and i had no hope that he might have changed his mind." She calls his parents until he was like, can you get my parents off my back about my way? When that didn't work, she took him to an exercise class, quote, but the instructor made fun of him,. So we quit. Like everyone in his life is like, this isn't a big deal. It's nor i love it".