The idea of being perfect is just a trick our mind uses to prevent us from connecting with other people. We use the idea of perfection as a protection against rejection and bad outcomes. The key thing is still going to be, it still comes down to like two or three very simple things. Are you happy with the person that you are? And my guess is that the answer is no. But i think that you think of yourself as a work in progress, which is a hundred % correct.