The Importance of Making Mistakes

I know a few people that have made mistakes very funny mistakes actually in time but I'm not allowed to tell them because it's my wife and it's an embarrassing thing okay. He was learning Italian and when he cooked dinner for his girlfriend's parents and he had a bit of a problem with a false friend so the parents were eating and say oh this is this is lovely and he wanted to say uh yes because we we make everything without conservatives but  the word for conservatives is um what is it conservative aunt you know yep yes. So basically he in the end he said well I was saying Italian but he said he said we do everything without condoms but he actually told me the parents