Placing a Narcissus

Many clients and listeners feel disappointment and sadness, not only because of their binding circumstances that prevent them from being able to physically separate. Some good hearted, well meaning friends, pastors and christian counsellors even, may not understand the difference. Placation is oftentimes promoted in the church only. It is wrongfully labelled and promoted as christian love. Loving a narcissus, god's way and accepting your circumstances does not involve placating.