Episode 113: Hot and Unbothered – How To Have the Sex You Really Want
Sex and Psychology Podcast
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Sex Education - I Love That Pleasure Focus
A lot of people interpret their partners no as their partner doesn't enjoy sex with them or isn't attracted to them anymore. So can you share a couple of tips on how to avoid letting no turn into self-defeating thoughts and relationship conflict? I think it's really helpful for people to get curious about what happens when a no comes up, so either getting curious about like what that means for your partner if they're open to that conversation. Sometimes people just need to say no and like not have you go any further with that conversation. You know there are models that work better than what we're doing here but that pleasure focus is really important. Unfortunately it's just not the dominant model
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