Punishment for Children

Most people in my country punish their kids. Because of that, the children can be very scared. The super just relaxed and calm. You stop them from doing something bad. Of course, you tell them why, they might cry and go crazy. But the the point is that you, as the parent, just stay very calm and relaxed about i say, i understand, inderstand you're upset right now, but you know, i can't let you do that, so i'm going to stop you. That's what i'm working on myself. I think that's the best way to do it. It's not easy when you're tired or something, but ideally, no