The Cognitive Dissonance of Choking During Sex

"I would be concurious to talk to someone who actually is into this sexually because like I don't find anything sexual about it," she says. "It just feels like violence to me with a guy. It just feels like rape." In the BDSM community, people within the community made it very clear that there is no safe way to choke somebody and even if the person seems fine afterwards, it can cause all sorts of issues.