Exploring the importance of dreaming big and having ambitious goals, this chapter delves into the concept of self-delusion in pursuing challenging endeavors while balancing the acknowledgment of obstacles. The speakers emphasize the value of allowing oneself to fantasize without limitations before transitioning to making plans to overcome hurdles in pursuit of one's dreams.
Are fantasies helpful or harmful? How is daydreaming like a drug? And what did Angela fantasize about during ninth-grade English class?
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