The Importance of Kindness in Trauma

I think if I separate kindness away from gentleness, that helps me. Kindness forces you to see what is in this person's best interest. Sometimes we are not quote unquote gentle with people because we're trying to get our point across. And so we're being tougher on them, not for their endgame, not to serve them, but because we're serving ourselves. We just went off on a tangent. That's cool.