You see the whole thing from post-traumatic stress to post-traumatic growth. And now you're ready to conquer. But if we don't have, when we're knocked out, like we said before, when your emotions are weak, you need to use your head. You need to use your intellect to calm me down. But most of us, it's most of us is when our head is cold. Most of us when our head is too cold, we don't know we're stuck. You need to use your emotions to fuel you. You understand? Your relationship is cold. We need emotions. We don't need more intellect and rationality why this relationship is cold. We already know that. So you have to have the balance above. You have to use your intellect. When you're very emotional, you have to calm down with your intellect. When you're completely out of, when your emotions are all over the place, aka Moroccan style, you need to calm down with your head. So both of us need that. So in this case, the Jews, they couldn't breathe. They were knocked out mentally. They were knocked out. They were to kotzeruach. They had to use their emotions. Miriam had to use their emotions. Women had to rouse emotion, a rouse desire to leave, a rouse of wanting a better life. And this is exactly what we have to do. But it's practicality also for women themselves. Men sometimes, there's times when men have tough times. And that's not the time to tell them to butcher them or demasculate them. That's the time to build them up. You have to build them up. And I've seen too much of this too much. Too much givoura right now. Remnachman says the only way you can, you really can help others is by loving them and giving them to them. Not by criticism and critique. That doesn't work. Today, that does not work. You don't want to stop working? When God created the world, out of didn't. That is, what is the practicality? It's God originally created the world only from judgment, from then. Because people would be unhit, such a spiritual level that right away, they would get the lesson and grow from it. But today, people cannot handle the den. They cannot handle the judgment. They need crescent. I mean, today, it's not enough to tell the guy, hey, you're a drug addict. Get out of bed. Let's go make something of your life. Okay, you got it. Where do I assign? That's not happening today. Okay? It's just not happening today. People need warmth. They need patience. They need not to be judged. They need to do it on their own. But they need to love. That's what exactly what today. You have to know how to blend crescent and givoura today. You have to know. And the crescent should be much more than the givoura today. If the givoura is more crescent, that means there's a lot of stuff in your own childhood that you never dealt with. That you have too much givoura in your life. You understand? In our lives, in our childhood, if we have too much givoura, so if too much justice, we then all of a sudden, we take the justice on others. So if you have to fix that. But if you had love, you would automatically basically show up at what we have. But this is exactly what this is telling us here. So again, as a woman, as a male, develop your feminine qualities of emotion, of dreaming, of the moon, of possibility, and as a woman. A woman naturally have this. When women don't have this anymore, it's because there's too much givoura. But they naturally have the ability to pick people up. And when they're not doing it, it's because they're getting sidetracked. Maybe you're watching Instagram too much and comparing your life to other people's lives. And that's not giving you hope. And that's what's happening today. People are coming to compare. They're coming to compare and it's leading them to despair. You compare, you will despair. Nobody has the same lane. Nobody has the same test. Nobody has the same... Everybody has a whole different test. Your test could be wealth. Another person's test could be something else. This is... There's a great line. This is what men are loyal when they have money. Women are loyal when he doesn't have money. Women get tested with loyalty when he doesn't have money. So you could see when man has money, that's where loyalty gets tested. When he doesn't have it, women get tested to see if he's going to stay with the guy. But again, you have to be able to be to lift. Imagine today. Think about that practicality in your life. Can you lift people up when they're down? Can you give them hope? Can you give them a kind word? That's the tikon today in this generation. That's why women will bring machere. That's why women will bring machere. They'll bring it through love, through caring, through hope, not through criticism, resentment, comparing. That's not bringing it. Gola. That's bringing destruction today. Gola. Where is the gola here? It's a beautiful thing saying, I love gola. I love redemption. This is breaking your nature. Do you understand? You want to gola? You want to redemption in your life? You need to break your nature of... Instead of making a comment, don't say make a nice comment. Remember, your tikon is speech. Women's tikon is speech. They have problems with speech. They had nine measures of it. You just had a nice word instead of saying the opposite word. When you normally would criticize, that is breaking your nature. That's like a guy telling him to stop looking at something when he's not supposed to. You think, you know how hard that is? You see how hard that is? It's equivalent. They both test are equivalent. We need to understand each other. Again, you could see today the most men leave relationships out of emotions because they're not being emotionally taken care of. They check out and they go to some girl that will give it to them. That's a strong marriage is a lot. Let's not believe that this Egypt concept is something thousands of years ago. This is today, my friend. This is today. Remember, we're all dealing with the stubborn ego, which is power. That's the stubborn ego that we're all dealing with today. He's the ego. He's the ego. It's the ego that we're dealing with. The ego is very stubborn. Why is the ego stubborn? Because it makes sure you have a very small perspective. If you have a small perspective, that means you have a big ego. If you have a wide perspective, that means you have a healthy self-esteem. That's the, your perspective is your indication of your self-esteem. And self-esteem and ego, go hand in hand. When one goes up, the other one goes down. When one goes down, the other one goes up. When I start becoming more open minded, my self-esteem goes up. When I become very small minded, my ego goes up. You know, people tell you I'm too sensitive and too sensitive to hear those words. Sensitive is saying, I have a big ego in a very nice way. We have to be open minded, because at the end of the day, we don't want to be slaves anymore. Have a great day.