I Love Them, but I'm Not in Love With Them

Love is a verb. It's an active process. The statement, i love them, but i'm not in love with them needs to be unpacked and investigated. If you've been on the receiving end of this statement, it can be very painful to hear. A relationship is not going to be sustainable if two people are just waiding around for a particular way that they want to feel. You can explore your motivation. Do you want to heal the relationship? And it may be that the answer to that question is no. Maybe what this episode does is give you the ump you need to start some individual therapy or to start some couples therapy.