How Do You Decide What You Want to Show to Your Followers?

I lovet how do you deal with thati i think i've learned to draw more of a line recently. I try to be vulnerable, and i do show, like, my place is messy. But even, for example, like instogram photos, like you all, it's definitely curated,. You definitely pick the prettiest pictures. And there is that level of, like, this is the on line me versus the imperson me.