#330: The Return of Drunk Dialing Q&A: How to Ask Better Questions, Take Better Risks, and More!
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"I struggle with that just in general personally, because I'm more of a listener than a talker," she says. "In fact, one way to ask questions is just to be quiet." There are very, very short questions that you can ask that can prompt someone to talk for two to five to ten minutes,. It doesn't have to be anything groundbreaking or particularly innovative", he adds.
This episode is a rare exception to the rule — unlike my usual long-form interviews, this is a drunk-dialing Q&A with you guys, which I’ve done a few times in the last few years, including for the celebration of the 100th episode of this podcast. In preparation for this episode, I solicited phone numbers from listeners who wanted to receive a call from me, and then I started drinking and dialing, answering questions and getting a little frisky along the way.
This time, I came in hot, starting after a few preliminary drinks with friends on a weekend — so it's double trouble.
I ended up covering topics including:
- How to reassess existing projects, specifically ones which you've put a lot of capital and time into, using 80/20 analysis and other tools.
- How to learn to care less about what people think, social perception, and how to minimize herd mentality.
- A framework for thinking about entrepreneurship, risk-taking, and how to cut your teeth as a business builder or creator.
- How to learn to ask better questions, whether in dating or sales.
- How to let the silence do the work.
- And so much more!
Please enjoy this tequila-fueled Q&A!
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