The Unfairness of Birthdays

"I just think that it doesn't feel very fair to now people getting married and them not being able to celebrate their traditions do you know what I mean like it's just too encroaching on everyone else's life," she says. "If I were to die right now would you want everyone around you to never celebrate their birthdays?" he adds. 'You can go pour shots out on my grave let's go be'  She also talks about how her mom has hated celebrating her birthday every year since the death of her grandpa, who passed away on her 17th birthday. The two-year anniversary is a way for families to remember loved ones they've lost in tragic ways