The Power of Silence

I think we're there all the time in our lives constantly in every conversation we're always trying to make connection through filling in space I do this workshop where I teach a listening technique and a lot of it has to do with resisting the impulse to make everything that you say about me. It's like actually takes hard work not to do that if you say it's hot here I say oh my gosh and it's not here too right because I'm just trying to make a connection with you  and try to find something in common but that's a really different experience than sitting and being present with somebodyright? And maybe when we say we don't know and the other person doesn't