The Importance of Being in Control When Dating

I was never really shy about expressing that was something that was important to me and I think a lot of people have really especially resonated with my story. Would you say it at the point where things started to get a little more heated or would you say it in casual conversation on a date on a date I never said it anybody that I got heated with knew going in where yeah I stood how I stoodHow do you explain your relationship? It's not someone wasting your time rightYeah or pretending to be well he pretended to be something else for five minutes Yeah but then again, when you're dating  it sounds more awkward to like talk about it now than when you're in the moment