Saly, i think parme just ai likes to be ambiguous and a not be pigeon hole. And then with being said, relationships right now, i feel like i'm avoiding relationships because i feel like a bo i don't want part of me feels like want that. So what does that mean when i say, who wants to be perfect before they start? Maybe it's an idea me go fort berryofno, we wold. We want to be that ema, that super a superhuman being before we jump into something that might make us more vulnerable.