When you lie, you lose the ability to discern the truth in yourself and others. When i think about a victor, frankl from the concentration camp in austrich who who was a psychiatrist and who studied people under duress. He said he got to thinking about his wife so strongly, so focused and so concentrated that he lost sight of almost where he was. For the first time in my life, i realized what all the great poets and philosophers said, that the greatest thing a human being can experience is love.