I feel a responsibility for stopping them being pornography what are your thoughts on that hmm so I always just like to be really clear total condition total conditioning okay. A lot of us were conditioned as teens that we could be a part of the opposite and then it's like you get married and all this sudden now you're in charge of now their sexual fulfillment flipped the coin yeah So when you try to teach someone that they're responsible for like influencing for good and things like that unfortunately we're also sitting in the belief that we're responsible for the other stuff too.