Performance Anxiety - When She's Bitter, I Don't Think He's Anger.

"If a girl turns you down, that doesn't mean things are over," he writes. "I think it was also kind of like performing anxiety because I was like, when she was saying it in kind of a flirty way or a joke." He says his priority is to make her feel safe and even though he's comfortable with tossing around the F word, most girls aren't.