I Own This Man, He's My Man. And Because You Dated Him, That Makes Me Feel Good.

She may feel like she has ownership of her boy friend, this person that's stocking you. Because you dated him, that makes you an enemy. And insecurity can lead to many toxic or disfunctional behaviors. So there's a whole list of stuff going on that what you're getting is probably just a tiny piece of the pie of what he's experiencing. Necessarily it's good to not be special when you're around somebody like this.