The Importance of Seeing Yourself in a Child

I never have seen my mom really like like herself in a way that felt genuine or not. I mean how could a child not feel detestable if you if they look like your ex-husband who you hate all the time but I always worry about that. My friend recently lost her mom to like Trump world and she's just like I don't recognize my mom anymore. It took me a long time to realize like we do not take care of the needs of our parent ever.