Do You Have to Put Your Time Into Influencer Dinners?

I would not be caught dead at one of the influencer dinners that they're like we're networking. I don't want to sit next to somebody and then have to go around and say a fun fact about yourself. No I went to one influencer dinner like situation maybe like a year ago and it was fine but I walked out. "Some people get energy from people like they like socializing and I'm fucking jealous no"