Perception Beats Perfection | Laura Huang
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Why do some people stand out and get ahead—even when they’re not the most qualified? In this episode, AJ and Johnny sit down with Harvard professor and author Laura Huang to unpack the hidden force she calls “edge”—and how anyone can create it.
Laura shares how to turn bias into opportunity, why adversity can actually be an advantage, and what successful people do differently when it comes to perception and presence. With insights from years of research and personal experience, she reveals how to sharpen your signals, own your story, and make others believe in your value before you even speak.
If you’ve ever felt overlooked or underestimated, this episode gives you the roadmap to flip the script.
What to Listen For
[00:00:00] What is “edge” and why it matters more than credentials
[00:02:45] How Laura’s own story shaped her research
[00:05:29] The real difference between hustle and strategic effort
[00:08:17] Why perceptions matter more than you think
[00:11:06] How to reframe bias as a tool, not a limitation
[00:14:22] Turning stereotypes into signals of strength
[00:17:38] What successful people do to make others believe in them
[00:21:05] The four components of creating your edge
[00:24:46] Laura’s advice for standing out in competitive environments
[00:27:12] How to own your narrative and signal confidence
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