I've Been Working on Myself, but I Don't Want to Lose Any of It

"I completely agree with what you said earlier also of, you know, the fear of not getting it to work," he says. "But that's just me and the way i think. I don't know how other people think." The more invested you are in some one, the more likely you are to self-sabotage - correct or incorrect. He writes: 'My initial relationships were very much based on kind of a negative attraction'