"Walk step number five, walk away. You know this person is not who you wanted them to be and you can't change that," he says. "The more you crawl back to them, the more you belittle yourself and push them further away." And then seven, get back on the path, workout, read, write, learn, play an instrument,. train you to get to eat, clean, clean your room, clean your car, get ahead at work.