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The Jenga Puzzle of Boxes
"We have a breakdown that's at the surface level. This is a really dumb example but I think every couple might be able to relate to this," she says. "Every time Chris sees the jenga puzzle of boxes he silently feels like I think he's my maid." And so we are now in this marriage where if you don't do the deeper work, those patterns that make you miserable become even more solidified and you become emotionally distant. 'I would remind myself that Chris is a really kind person who just wants to be loved'