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#602 - Gurwinder Bhogal - 14 Shocking Lessons About Human Nature

Modern Wisdom

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The Persona Is Impossible of Receiving Love

I spoke about this in a TEDx talk a couple of years ago and I said that the persona is incapable of receiving love. It can only receive praise. And it was something I learned from Aubrey Marcus: if you're only playing a role, then any compliments that you receive won't existentially connect with you inside because it doesn't feel like someone's complimenting you. They're just complimenting this projection of what you thought they wanted," he says. "If you are just who you really are and you just are relaxed and just say what you really think, it just saves so much energy in interactions"

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