The Secrets of Seduction

The undefensive lover lowers the inhibitions of his or her target. It is important to learn to not react defensively, bend instead of resist. Be open to influence from others and they will more easily fall under your spell. Defensiveness is deadly in seduction. Act defensive and you'll bring out defensiveness in other people. Too much attention can be interesting for a while, but it soon grows claying and finally becomes clostrophobic and frightening. To understand the peculiar power of the coquette, you must first understand a critical property of love and desire. The more obviously you pursue a person, the more likely you are to chase them away.