The more sort of successful I became and the more power I had in these situations I don't think I would be groped and grabbed at in the same way that I was. As somebody who's a new parent I haven't had to think about teaching my child these sort of things yet he's only six months old. That being said I've learned that you can't teach a child an idea by letting them be afraid of making them afraid of the consequences. People are just operating out of fear rather than understanding of concepts.