It's just very hard to step out of the emotion in the moment. And sidestep it and try and get outside or above whatever analogy you want to try and say like, okay, what do I not understand? And then it becomes a question to solve rather than a person to attack. It's really interesting that your normal reaction to her wasn't the same and thus her reaction was different from yours. So cool to make that realization.

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