Amaap: Falling in love is the most rewarding part of the process because it's a process that you need. She says we have to be willing to start with a small spark that says this is worth exploring. A lot of people say that if it's not day one explosive kind of love, then it's not real. But I don't think that's fair to you," she says. "You deserve a love where you can point at all the goodness you have over time"