The Gift of Parenting a Diagnosis

Rebecca Phillips Epstein has ADHD. But as with many high-achieving girls, her symptoms were missed early on. Then, during the pandemic, it finally clicked: She discovered a Twitter thread about people who beat themselves up for being lazy when clearly they’re not. 

Rebecca has always been aware of her challenges — procrastination, being late, and having a million great ideas that never get finished. As a screenplay writer and essayist, she’d overcompensate so no one would be the wiser. Hear how an ADHD diagnosis helped her rethink what she used to call “personality failures” or “laziness.” Also in this episode: How depression treatment before her ADHD diagnosis helped her tread water but never “surf.” Rebecca also talks about her decision to stop breastfeeding her second child in order to stay on her ADHD medication. 

To find a transcript for this episode and more resources, visit the episode page at Understood. 

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Related resources

• ADHD and the myth of laziness
• ADHD and the brain
• 8 common myths about ADHD
• You can also check out Rebecca's Washington Post article on ADHD medication and breastfeeding.

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