i don't really know a hundred % with him, but generally speaking, when there are people who grow up in really difficult circumstances, the need to adapt and survive has to come with a ton of rigidity. And we can kind of see thatd it's kind of interesting to hear him sort of talk about how angry he was and stuff like that. I imagine i would feel shame at her for not maintaining a relationship with me and allowing herself to be poisoned. In addition to feeling angry with her, i would work really hard to devalue those feelings within myself,. So i've noticed with people who ere verylike, politically charged and also, like, don't express a whole