How to Live With Someone or Be Around Someone That Does Borderline Personality Disorder

I know people who have been diagnosed borderline and that's really hard. You give a pit in your stomach all the time around someone and you're walking on eggshells a lot. There's a great book called, I Hate You Don't Leave Me is One and Walking on Eggshells, How to Live with Someone or Be Around Someone That Does Borderline Personality Disorder. And whereas a narcissist or a psychopath or sociopath might be masquerading as being a victim, borderlines actually had some kind of horrible trauma happen to them and they feel it. So borderlines and also because they actually were victims,. Like it comes from trauma. It's not something you're born with