i feel like these discussions of the magnitudes are often absent in these kinds of conversations. And that on the prostitution, wind you just decriminalize it and regulate it as an industry just to avoid abuse and fraud and things like that. The argument against am de criminalizing sex work that i really can't stand is the argument that it a degrades you as a person to engage in sex work. I don't understand how this is different because we have a lot of baggage as a culture about sexnd. Some people do feel more degraded by being objectified sexually than being objectified in non sexual ways.
When it comes to what we believe, humans see what they want to see. We have what Julia Galef calls a “soldier” mindset: a drive to defend the ideas we most want to believe — and shoot down those we don’t. But if we want to get things right more often, argues Galef, we should train ourselves to have a “scout” mindset. Unlike the soldier, a scout’s goal isn’t to defend one side over the other. It’s to go out, survey the territory, and come back with as accurate a map as possible. Regardless of what they hope to be the case, above all, the scout wants to know what’s actually true. In The Scout Mindset, Galef explores why our brains deceive us and what we can do to change the way we think.