"I think this we're uncovering something about childhood pain bodies and childhood wounds is we think we're experts. So maybe we're also not super comfortable with the fact that maybe I was the one that ruined Leela's birthday party by trying to save it," she says. "We will never know why he was pouting, but he was a little bit more in like a, I'm not being appreciated place." 'It didn't ruin the party that he was silent or powder,' her mother adds. "'You did the absolute right thing in like an app' It would have been a hundred percent worse if you didn't set that boundary,'" his father responds.