In an article called emotional climate in the family and therapy, thomas s. Fogerty used a metafor that has become hugely popular. He describes the metafor of the bank account to describe the health in relationships. If one gets an unexpected bill, it can be very small. This is not so with no money in the the bank, or if one is already in debt. Here, it could become a straw that breaks the camel's back. And albert einstein added, generations to come will scarce believe that such one is this ever in flesh and blood walked upon this earth. Well, here is what i've learned. Understanding, uncovering what's essential to other people