Is the Profile More Important Than the Profile?

Do you scroll through people's profiles, or do you wait for people to write you? Oh, i've actually reached out to a couple of people. I'm not a huge apper, dading soverrit. So if im matched from gwensone's profile, and it's a match, and i read it and it's appealing, i'll say something. And one was a sparing out of the sky, and i were so sparring back and forth,. A, you know, that we bothre like dying every time they read each other's post.