Is Your Relationship Container Safe?

I think it's also important to trust that your relationship container is very safe especially if you're telling your partner something that may push them outside of their comfort zone. If I say if I told you your parenting strategy needed some sort of adjustment then in discussion outside of our relationship with your friendship circle or with your mum can be hugely detrimental to a relationship. And I see that within my circle or I don't see that withinMy closest friends like there is never any negative talk of our partners and so many situations where people men especially can find this channel to pass off their feelings or not have to speak their truth  and they outsource that and use their partner as an excuse for why they