The Five Stages of Building Towards a Godly Marriage

i want to talk about the five stages of building towards a godly marriage. Now, before i go into the first stage, i don't want to be superspiritual and overlook something that is extremely important. I'm not trying to learn to love somebody on a romantic level that i'm not attracted to. Your god is small. My god is big. And then i came across proverbs that wise king solomon. He says, may your wife's breast captivate you all the days of your life. So for me, i got a powerful woman and a fine woman. You can have both. There are some non negotiables, right? We can talk about that