This is about learning how to spend money, which I think was a journey for both of us. To me, the right answer is whatever allows you to sleep at night without thinking too much. Those are things worth investing in. They last a lifetime and they increase your quality of life more so than saving a few extra dollars.
Money is a leading cause of problems in relationships. It’s not just not having money, it’s conflict around money, lack of alignment, and the downstream effects of that.
Money is complicated because it’s influenced by your direct circumstances, but also by your childhood, psychology, and trajectory. It's also complicated because so few people talk openly and honestly about money.
In this episode, Steph and Cal open up the kimono and explore how they deal with and think about money in their relationship. They share their current working philosophy on money and stories about the things they struggle with and are still working on.